
| Name | Maria Louisa Stephanie Beatrix Nathalie DeLage DE VOLUDE [4] | |
| Birth | 28 Oct 1782 | the DeLage Chateau in suburban Paris, France [4, 5] |
| Gender | Female | |
| HIST | Reflections by Sammy Way: Marie Antoinette's godchild was member of Sumter family Nathalie Delage was the goddaughter of Marie Antoinette and was displayed in the French court after she was born in 1782. SUMTER ITEM FILE PHOTO Posted Saturday, March 1, 2025 6:00 am By SAMMY WAY Sumter Item archivist and historian Reflections remembers Nathalie Delage through the writings of Jean Brabham McKinney and her becoming a member of the Sumter family. "In the fall of 1782, in Boston Harbor, the birth of Nathalie de Delage de Volade in Paris was celebrated by a ship's gun. The salute, ordered by the baby's proud grandfather, Admiral Comte Renard d'Ambliment, was prophetic of Nathalie's future, for one day she would become a gracious and beloved South Carolina matron." Information and photos used to prepare this piece were obtained from The Sumter Item archives with the writings of Cassie Nicholes, Azile McCoy and Dr. Anne King Gregorie also being consulted. A degree of editing was required due to the length of paper being presented in two parts. "At this time, the baby Nathalie was proudly displayed in the court of Louis XVI and Marie Antoinette. Nathalie's mother was Beatrix de Delage de Volude, the wife of the Marquis Paul Jean Joseph de Volude, a French naval officer. Nathalie's mother had, from her youth, been attached to the French court and at the time of Nathalie's birth was dame of d'honneur to the Princess de Lamballe. Nathalie was the godchild of Marie Antoinette. "Nathalie grew into a lovely child, petite, delicate and fair. She and her sisters, Calixte and Stephanie, played in the gardens of Versailles dressed in silks, satins and laces, like miniature adults. When she was six, Nathalie entered the Bernardine Sisters' School at Pandemond, Versailles. While the nuns were educating Nathalie, revolution was brewing. Sensing the approaching danger, the Marquis and Marquise Delage left Paris with their daughters and made plans to leave the country. While waiting for safe passage to be arranged, Nathalie and her younger sisters lived with their Granny d'Ambliment in Bordeaux. "Nathalie was entrusted to the care of a family friend and governess, Madame Senat, who was embarking from Bordeaux to New York City and safety. Her mother and Nathalie's two sisters planned to come to America later. Unfortunately, the second ship was chased by an English warship to the shores of Spain, where that portion of the family remained until the Revolution was over. Nathalie and Madame Senat arrived in New York in 1793. It was already a bustling, prosperous seaport city. The enterprising Madame Senat set up an exclusive seminary for young ladies, located on Partition Street. Daughters of the finest New York families, including the Edwardes, the Schuylers, the Livingstons and the Burrs, flocked to Madame Senat's school. Theodosia Burr, daughter of Aaron Burr, established a friendship with Nathalie that lasted a lifetime, for they both married South Carolina natives. "After the death of Theodosia's mother, Aaron Burr invited Nathalie to live in his home as sister and companion to the lonely Theodosia. With the permission of the Marquise Delage, Nathalie became the ward of Aaron Burr and thus his second daughter. He and Theodosia were a comfort to her when she learned of the death of her father and later of her sister Calixte in Spain. "The year 1801 brought many changes. Aaron Burr became vice president of the United States, missing the presidency by one vote to Thomas Jefferson. Theodosia married Joseph Alston of South Carolina, and Nathalie's mother sent word it was safe for her daughter to return to France. As it was considered improper for a young, unmarried woman to travel unchaperoned on a long voyage, Burr helped to arrange her passage under the care of his friend, Robert Livingston, minister to France. On board ship with Livingston was his secretary, Col. Thomas Sumter, son of South Carolina's 'Gamecock' of Revolutionary fame. "After their long voyage on the frigate Boston, young Thomas, 33, and Nathalie, 19, finally arrived in France. During the course of the journey, the young couple fell in love. She was happy to accept his proposal of marriage, but her mother and Granny d'Ambliment fiercely opposed the match. Col. Horatio Gates wrote to Aaron Burr, 'Young Secretary Sumter on the passage to Europe fell desperately in love with Miss Nathalie Delage. They landed in Nantes near her mother's chateau. The elderly lady was a furious royalist and would not hear of her daughter being married to a republican.' "But the difficulties were overcome, and the young couple were married in Paris on the 20th of March 1802. In 1803, Col. Sumter resigned as secretary of the United States Legation in Paris. He, his wife and their baby daughter arrived in Charleston at the height of the pre-Christmas season. They were lavishly entertained, and Mrs. Sumter and Mrs. Alston were joyfully reunited." Reflections by Sammy Way: Marie Antoinette's godchild was member of Sumter family, Part II The burial place of Nathalie Delage Sumter includes a small chapel built over her grave at her request. SUMTER ITEM FILE PHOTO Posted Saturday, March 8, 2025 6:00 am By SAMMY WAY Sumter Item archivist and historian Reflections remembers Nathalie Delage through the writings of Jean Brabham McKinney and her becoming a member of the Sumter family. "In the fall of 1782, in Boston Harbor, the birth of Nathalie de Delage de Volade in Paris was celebrated by a ship's gun. The salute, ordered by the baby's proud grandfather, Admiral Comte Renard d'Ambliment, was prophetic of Nathalie's future, for one day she would become a gracious and beloved South Carolina matron." Information and photos used to prepare this piece were obtained from The Sumter Item archives with the writings of Cassie Nicholes, Azile McCoy and Dr. Anne King Gregorie also being consulted. A degree of editing was required due to the length of paper being presented in two parts. Read part one at www.theitem.com/reflections or in the March 1-4 weekend edition. On Dec. 10, 1803, Mrs. Theodosia Alston, Delage's sister and companion, wrote her father from The Oaks Plantation, in Georgetown, "Nathalie delighted to see me and still pretty. She has grown thinner, much thinner, but her complexion is still good, though more languid. The loss of her hair is an alteration for the worse. Her crop is pretty, but not half so much as her fine brown hair. Nathalie has a lovely little daughter." The reception the young Sumters, Nathalie and Col. Thomas, receivedin Charleston was nothing compared to the one at Gen. Thomas Sumter's home in Stateburg. As the carriage bearing the young Sumter family and their English maids approached, the road was lined with neighbors, friends and the Black people from Gen. Sumter's plantation. Greeting his son and daughter-in-law with great affection, Gen. Sumter held the baby Nathalie in his arms and told the assembled crowd, "My son who has been away much too long is home again, and my daughter, bearing a living treasure, has come to share our bounty." As Mrs. Sumter was the only Catholic in a Protestant community, her "dear father," as she affectionately called Gen. Sumter, had a small brick chapel, with a red tile roof imported from France, built for her on the grounds near Home House. On March 10, 1805, another "little stranger," as she always called her babies, arrived. The girl was named Stephanie Beatrice but nicknamed "Fanny." After Fanny's birth, Mrs. Sumter wrote her mother, "This little darling will be the last." But within a year, another "little stranger" arrived, a girl, Mary Thomasine. But this peaceful period was soon to end. In March 1809, President Madison appointed Thomas Sumter minister plenipotentiary to the court of the exiled King of Portugal, in Brazil. They sailed from New York in March 1810, after the birth of their fourth child, a boy, Thomas Delage Sumter. During their years in Brazil, there were as always good times and bad. As Mrs. Sumter was wont to say, "Life is like an onion; you peel it off a layer at a time, and sometimes you weep." "The tears came when the sad news reached her of the deaths of 'Miss Polly,' her mother-in-law, and of Mrs. Alston's only son, 'Gampy.' Later, Mrs. Sumter grieved over the mysterious disappearance of her friend Theodosia, at sea." In 1821, the Sumters and their children, now numbering seven (three having been born in Brazil), returned to Home Place. It was a sad homecoming with "Miss Polly" dead and the Sumter property heavily mortgaged. The Gamecock, however, was still hale and hearty and lived on to be 96. For a long time, Mrs. Sumter had been anxious to see her mother. It had been 21 years since she had visited France. At last, her husband allowed her to accept the passage money her mother offered her and the children. Nathalie took her oldest child, Nathalie, her young daughter, Brazilia, and a son, Sebastian, with her. The other four children remained with their father in Stateburg. Before the end of her visit, daughters Mary and Fanny joined her. Fanny and Nathalie married European royalty, Count Joseph Binda of Italy and Comte Gabriel de Fontenay of France, respectively. Mary, who remained in France with her grandmother, later died there of pneumonia. After her return to Stateburg, Nathalie spent the rest of her days at Home House caring for her husband, children and her "other family," the Black people who lived and worked on the plantation. The melancholy days of her widowhood are recorded in her diary (1840-41), now preserved in the South Caroliniana Library at the University of South Carolina. In it, she tells of giving away her husband's clothes. She records, "Put up 51 bottles of Madeira wine. Took my chocolate and went to church." Her diary also reflects her failing health. She writes of gargling with vinegar and salt, using lye poultices and taking salts and snake root. In a more cheerful vein, she describes her pink oleanders, her roses and pomegranate trees, the French newspapers sent by her mother and the novel she was reading titled "The King's Highway." On Aug. 10, 1841, one year after her husband's death, Nathalie Delage Sumter died. Azile McCoy notes in her writings "Tradition states that she was buried in the chapel her 'dear Father' had built for her in the grove just beyond her beloved Home House, far from Paris and the Palace of Versailles. However, 'according to her will it appears that her children fulfilled her request and built the chapel as a memorial to her, placing the small cathedral over her resting place.' There is a memorial plaque attached to the chapel wall which reads - Nathalie Marie Louise Stephanie Beatrix DeLage de Volude Beloved wife of Thomas Sumter, Jr. Born in France, Oct. 28, 1782 Died in Stateburg, Aug. 10, 1841." [2, 3] | |
| _UID | B448F5B21AC747239E9F21131C887222972A | |
| Death | 10 Aug 1841 [6] | |
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| Burial | Thomas Sumter Memorial Park, Sumter County, South Carolina [7] |
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| Person ID | I1375 | Singleton and Related Families |
| Last Modified | 19 Mar 2025 | |
| Father | Marquis Joseph-Paul-Jean DeLage DEVOLUDE d. 1799, Puerto Rico | |
| Mother | Marquise Beatrix-Stephanie-Renart deFuchsamberg D’AMBLIMONT | |
| _UID | 3C9F789B16C44B1B89FB6B5B8C6C377E25A3 | |
| _UID | 3C9F789B16C44B1B89FB6B5B8C6C377E25A3 | |
| Family ID | F2556 | Group Sheet | Family Chart |
| Family | Thomas SUMTER, Jr., b. 30 Aug 1768, Stateburg, South Carolina d. 15 Jun 1840, Stateburg, South Carolina (Age 71 years) | |||||||||||||||
| Marriage | 20 Mar 1802 | France [5] |
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| _UID | 5CF03E6037E34611B51837E7A9E4C0AF425A | |||||||||||||||
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| Family ID | F2555 | Group Sheet | Family Chart | ||||||||||||||
| Last Modified | 23 Mar 2026 | |||||||||||||||
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